Below we give some tips for Western men who want to meet a unmarried woman. This tip is based on a list of common mistakes Western men make when meeting women.
Consider only her appearance.
Hey, man, you will not live with a picture hung on the wall - she is a living person with her pros and cons, strengths and weaknesses. So if she now looks at a batch of her photos like a glamorous model from a glossy magazine, it does not mean that she looks like that in everyday life. So, because of this mistake, 20% of single women receive 80% of messages and letters from potential partners. However, one must understand that they only look prettier than others.
Everything can change when you meet a woman in person. She can look completely ordinary, like thousands of others.
No, we are not saying that beauty is useless in the match process. All you need to do is to consider the factor of appearance as one of many, including such important ones as her mind, experience, education, open heart, wisdom, the desire to be your supporter, going through life, and what is called " buzzing "is the feeling that you have met" your "person. There are so many, yes, but they all need to be carefully thought out if you want to be successful in your quest and not keep looking for years or decades.
Only look for a model that all your friends will envy.
This is a logical continuation of problem # 1, but broader. Sometimes men just want to find a good painting, a model, to become their partner for outdoor activities. All friends and colleagues look at them at their Ukrainian lady, who says that she is a real beauty from one of the Ukrainian free dating sites. Of course, this will cause your self-esteem to rise above the mountains.
But what happens next when you get home after the dates are over? Will you sheathe her? Or in the closet? No, you can't - she's a person just like you, so you'll have to fill 95% of the time between parties with more than just the love of feeling superior.
In addition, women like these models almost never want to find an ordinary man with whom to connect their lives - they also want to realize their self-esteem, a rich guy who would make them shine like a diamond 24/7/365 and to become the brightest star in the sky of the vanity fair. Isn't this a portrait of the woman you want to be in a relationship with? If not, try to avoid mistake number two.
Don't stop when you find a good lady.
Have you found anyone who is at least 90% good for you singles? Doesn't she giggle like a chicken or giggle with her knuckles? She's perfect! Take her and marry her.
We are exaggerating, of course. But if you have already found a suitable match, why do you keep looking for someone better, blonde, softer, wiser ...? This # 3 mistake won't make you move with a fine, and you keep looking for the best one. If you value your future happiness, just stop. Good?
Do not post your photo on the dating site.
So you want to find a pretty lady who doesn't give them anything in return? Do you think that only you choose, and the woman does not? So they should judge you by the way you talk, your job, and the size of your house? Well, this is definitely part of what is called “family happiness,” but before they have a chance to get into your head, they need to see you first. Nobody wants a pig in a bag.
But please don't go to the opposite extreme: don't post hundreds of pictures of a very handsome muscular guy, as only a small percentage of women believe you can actually look like that. There are a lot of scumbags, phishers and scammers who use similar things: post a super-beautiful photo with a mega-attractive story of their life and demand money or their bank account details in no time.
Be yourself for free dates: a humble and cheerful guy looking for warm and kind women. You choose, and you also choose, remember this.
Be too intrusive.
Western men want to understand that the lady who interests them is equally interested in them. Therefore, they send a letter, and then they wink, and an SMS, and another SMS, and another 101 SMS in two hours. Women from Ukraine are more reserved and thoughtful in communication. If you demonstrate this restraint, they will choose not to answer you at all, but choose another guy.
Instead, it is better to reduce the daily SMS limit to two per day: wishing her a good day in the morning and a good night in the evening. Maybe make a Skype call a couple of times a week.
Desire to meet as many women as possible at one time.
You can use the internet and dating sites to meet as many women as possible. But do not try to collect them in a bunch - if you find one that you think is interesting, agree about a date with her. Otherwise, if you are not open and do not answer by keeping